loyalty

loyalty-
1.the state or quality of being loyal; faithfulness to commitments or obligations.
2.faithful adherence to a sovereign, government, leader, cause, etc.
3.an example or instance of faithfulness, adherence, or the like: a man with fierce loyalties.

Loyalty is not a quality i have at some moments. given some circumstances, i will have no problems doing something others think is unjust because, in my mind, it is totally ok to do that. you were right, dont often think of others when moments like this arise. my mind is totally focused on myself and what i think is right. maybe this is a quality i should learn because it seems that my lack of it is hurting alot of people.